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Our last weeks of December 2019

Hello my absolutely wonderful friends! It took me all that time to finish my post… Unbelievable, but our days just have been that way, where I can’t get anything finished, because so many other things had to be done.

I really have to thank you all again, just so that you know how much all of your kind messages and comments mean to me and how thankful I am for all that support and love.

December 18, 2019

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Hero

In the morning of December 18, 2019, little boy Hero had his neutering surgery. Everything went well and he did not seem to be in any pain at all. Just a bit tired and so he basically went to sleep not long after we arrived back home. Since we didn’t sleep much that night, we all just went to have a rest… Ralph, I and the cats in the bed.

At some point, I got woken up because my phone rang. It was the Crematory in Gleisdorf, where my sweet Murli had been cremated. Gleisdorf is a little less than half an hour away by car, depending on traffic. I was informed that I can pick up her Urn whenever I want. So I quickly looked up the times for the trains going to the town and told them I would arrive the next day at 11am. The Crematory is close to the train station.

December 19, 2019

In the morning, one of the first things I did was to finally free poor Samantha from her cone. I wanted her to be free of it and able to go to the toilet herself while I was gone for a few hours, to pick up Murli’s Urn in Gleisdorf.

Samantha simply looked exhausted after two weeks with the cone.

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Samantha after I removed her cone

Thankfully the train I had to take was one of the local trains, which stop at all the stations, including the one that’s near our home, so I didn’t have to go all the way to the main train station in Graz. It’s not even 5 minutes from us with my bicycle.

The train ride itself lasts about 30 minutes, but it feels much shorter. It goes through the countryside with lots of woods and is really lovely. The train arrived a few minutes before 11am and I walked straight to the close by Pet-Crematory.

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The Crematory Murli was cremated at

I thought I took many more photos from in front of the Crematory, but it seems the photos never saved on my phone. Something went wrong, which had probably more to do with the state I was in.

The sweet Lady I had already talked to one the one a few times greeted me as I walked in. It’s beautiful there. Much more beautiful than the Crematory for humans I’ve been to. It feels comforting as soon as you walk in. Friendly and warm. Not to mention that the people I had talked to and the sweet young man who picked up Murli, have been amazing. So understanding and kind. I knew about them for years and so I knew who to contact right away on the morning of Murli’s passing.

The Lady brought me to the room with Murli’s Urn. As soon as I got there, I greeted her as I always did with “Hey baby” and started crying right away. For quite a while. But they were just so kind there. They leave you alone, or stay with you, however you wish. You can also stay as long as you feel you need to before you leave with the Urn.

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Murli’s little urn. The certificate has all the information of the cremation on it, as well as my and Murli’s personal info. I also kept the rose and dried it. It’s now with Murli’s urn.
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Murli’s fur and her paw print on a ceramic heart

They offer to create a paw print on a ceramic and let you decide on the shape of it. I wanted it to be a heart, and the paw print in black, since Murli is a panfur with black paws. I had also asked them for some of Murli’s fur, back when I chose the Urn and paw print.

The Lady helped me to pack it up carefully, making sure it’s safe during my little travel back home. We also talked for a while, as she has cats herself and knows what it all feels like.

And so with Murli’s Urn safely with me, I went to catch the next train home. It definitely feels better now to have her urn back home with us.

It’s still going to be very difficult for quite a while, but that’s what I deal with within my own mind and soul. I want to be my normal and happy self for the other furkids, Samantha, Sonic, Lisa and Hero.

Everyone of you knows what it is like, so I don’t need, or even want to write about the sadness. Instead I want to remember and be grateful for every year, every day I got to spend with Murli my life. Murli was happiness, empathy, love and warmth all packed into a beautiful feline. All the kitties loved her right away. They all felt comfortable around her. When Hero and Lisa first came to us, and they were still absolutely frightened, they were for some reason feeling relaxed and less scared when they were near Murli. Her soul is alive and well and my bond with her will remain forever. I’m so grateful for my life with my beloved little family, which Murli will always remain part of.

Samantha

We worried a lot about Samantha too, as she was really unhappy with her cone. Also, we think any movement for her felt uncomfortable, since the cut was really deep, since the Vet had to make sure to get everything during her surgery, to make sure weird growth can restart in that spot.ย  Samantha was on pain meds of course, but it might still have been uncomfortable in some way.

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Me feeding Samantha with chicken, the only thing she would eat

Thankfully I was able to keep Samantha healthy during the whole two weeks with her cone; feeding her, giving her water with a syringe and carrying her to the toilet and everywhere else she wanted to be usually. Since she only ate chicken breast, I had to give her a supplement paste in the right amount, to make sure she still gets all the important nutrients and vitamins. When the day came to remove her stitches, Samantha was put on the scale and checked out properly. To my amazement, she had not lost any weight during that time and was well hydrated! The hydration was what I had worried about the most. I knew how much water an adult cat needs every day, and I tried my best to get as close to it as possible. Apparently it’s 50ml for every kg of body-weight.

Samantha started recovering from her ordeal and is doing really well again now. Her scar is healing up great! It’s wonderful to see her happy again.

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Samantha now

Christmas

To do something fun for the cats, I bought a little Christmas tree just for the balcony, so the cats have something interesting to smell at and investigate. They are only out for a few minutes at a time together with us, since it’s way too cold.

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Lisa (left) and Sonic
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Lisa is a little hidden on the left and Hero

The other decoration I had on the living room window, had been on there since the beginning of December. But I kept candles burning ever since the day Murli had passed. That’s what this window looks like:

Later I also put up a tiny little Christmas tree which I decorated and put somewhere Lisa and Hero can’t get to. Samantha and Sonic never tried anything too silly with our Christmas trees anyway.

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I bought that little tree where I had bought the bigger one for the balcony. It still smells lovely! Just for fun and because the cats need some decoration they like, I added some colourful mousies as well. Everyone got some nice Christmas gifts and tasty food. The weather station you can see behind the toys is what I got from Ralph for Christmas, since I’ve been wanting one for many years. It’s awesome!

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Toy mouse Christmas Decoration
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Hero trying to decide which toy to play with now

The cats are having fun with their new toys!

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Hero got to see the rail with the ball first, as the others were still sleeping

Hero and Lisa are great at playing together!

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Sonic and Hero

New Years

Their new toy was quite helpful in trying to distract the cats from all the noise from the fire crackers and fire works at midnight on new years eve! Sonic of course was not worried anyway, since he can’t hear, but Samantha, Hero and Lisa were worried. Though we did quite well in calming them down and making them feel safer. Luckily, it’s not as crazy where we are. It would be a different story right in the city centre.

I didn’t even look at the fire works, and instead stayed with the cats, comforting them.

The last sunset of 2019 was absolutely beautiful.

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And there we are, another year gone by. Actually, a whole decade gone by. But it does not feel like it’s been so long. Despite how fast the time goes by, I am thankful for every second of it. Every moment I got to spend with everyone I love. I am holding on and loving every moment I can spend with Ralph, Samantha, Sonic, Hero and Lisa. And I’m thankful for every single friend I found through posting about Murli and about our life now.

Thank you all for every lovely word of yours and for continuing to visit, despite me not being able to keep up with my replies lots of times. Though I do read and appreciate every single one of them and I’ll reply, even if I’m late.

Ralph, the cats and myself, wish everyone of you happiness for the new year. Wishing good health and wellbeing for human and furry friends, and may everyone be able to spend as much time as they want and can with their loved ones.

Lots of love from us, and purrs from the kitties!

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Lisa and Hero with the red light of the sunset
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It’s summer here! Cats all flopped out all day.

Just look at them!

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It’s been lovely, but hot and unfortunately very humid, which is the actual problem. The temperature itself would not be so hard on them. The apartment is nice and comfortably cool. During the worst heat of the day, the cats don’t even want to go out, not even Murli, which says a lot.

Murli spends most of the afternoon up on the fridge…

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She enjoys when the fan is on too!

Samantha and Sonic like to hang out in the bedroom when the window is open with just the cat safety net on. It’s impossible to make the bed in the morning like that. If you try, they will help, but with their help, it will take longer than to just wait until they are somewhere else (which will be about midday or even later).

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Sonic and Samantha
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Samantha telling me she’ll love to help make the bed
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Sonic – He’s not going to move… He’s enjoying the breeze from the window

But in the evening they like to hang out on the balcony again.

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Murli, and she even took a bit of string to play and later fell asleep on it
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Samantha on the other chair (I replaced the previous image with this one from the same evening, because I realised I already had the photo with Samantha on the blankie in my slideshow at the top of the post lol)

In other things…

There is a forecast for thunderstorm and heavy rain for the afternoon today. Since my Dad is on vacation for two weeks, I take care of the flowers on the grave of my Mum and my grandparents. I usually go there in the morning, before it gets too hot. I love to take care of them and it’s a lovely bicycle ride, which I record on my GoPro. I was even able to keep my hat on without it flying off!

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It’s this hat, that Ralph found in Ronda, Spain

But with the forecast predicting so much rain, I’ll take a gamble and hope the rain will take care of the flowers today. I’ve been a bit exhausted these days from doing a lot and need a day of not having to go out (which would be today). But if no rain comes, I’ll go to the cemetery in the early evening.

Also, after having migraines every single day for more than a week, I finally got a bit of a break. Didn’t have one yesterday and as of right now, I feel fine too!

Ralph, the cats and myself, wish all the awesome Dad’s (which includes Cat Dad’s too of course) out there a happy Father’s Day! Hope you have a wonderful day!

Love, Murli, Samantha, Sonic and me <3

PS: The cats told me to help them make a Father’s Day card for Ralph, their Daddy. So I used one of my apps on my phone and they told me what to do. Happy Cat Daddy Day!

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The Father’s Day card the cats made for Ralph (with my help)

 

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Happy New Year!

Hello everyone! We hope you’re having a nice New Years Eve and that your holidays have been great!

Ralph, the cats and myself are just having a relaxed holiday really, with just being home with the cats, having good food and cake. Of course the cats also get special treats ;-)

Samantha and Sonic are still curled up and asleep. Only Murli is walking around at the moment. They’re all relaxed and happy. Thankfully, with the windows and backdoor closed, it’s not that noisy and the bangs sound distant. It will get loud around midnight though, but we’re not right in the middle of the city, so there’s not that much going on. I’m very glad for that, as it’s horribly noisy right in the city, with constant bangs and fireworks and festival tents with loud music going till 5 in the morning. I enjoy not having to deal with that anymore so much!

Could not be happier to be together with Ralph and the sweet cats in our home. And it’s amazing to me that this is now our 2nd New Years together (since Ralph came to Austria in September 2017). I’m looking forward to every day of our life going forward. Every single day is a lovely one with our little family and I’m so thankful for that.

May the new year be a peaceful and happy one for all of us!

Lots of love! Thank you, each and every one of you, for commenting and visiting my little blog, despite the fact I wasn’t very active this year.

How is New Years where you are?

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Merry Christmas sweet friends!

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Ralph, me and the Cats, Samantha, Sonic and Murli wish everyone of you lovely friends a happy Christmas, and peaceful holidays!

You have all been on my mind, wondering how you all are doing and hoping everyone and their furbabies are well and happy.

We are all happy and thankful to be together in our home. The cats are fine and happy, as are Ralph and myself. My migraines have not been as frequent either!

We had a lovely Christmas Eve dinner yesterday at my Dads. I still feel stuffed from that dinner… Of course the cats got some of it too! We brought home some chicken for them, off of Ralphs plate. They loved it of course, and even today, they got some meat from Ralphs dinner! Since I don’t eat meat, I don’t have anything to give them off of my plate, so it’s always Ralph :-D

We walked home after dinner at my Dads, and I went to bed not too lang afterwards. This morning, we opened our gifts, which was lovely.

This is our little tree. I got it from my Mum in 2005, and I put it up every Christmas. I added some things to it, like the birds and the cat at the top. The birds on that tree are older than I am, except for one.

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Ralph and I got that little cat last years Christmas at the Christmas market in town

 

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Murli on the living room window with the Christmas lights

I will do an end of year post, where I try to put everything important in that’s been going on. But one important update I’ll leave you with already. Murli ended up being fine after the Vet. The lab results showed that she is healthy, except for one thing, her thyroid… She’s got Hyperthyroidism. And for this, she now gets tablets that according to the Vet, she’d have to get for the rest of her life. Thankfully, she seems to be doing really well with them, and she’s happy as always. I have to put the little tablets in a chicken or turkey meat bread spread, make a little tiny ball out of it and put it in her bowl with her normal food. That way she eats up the tablet every day without a problem.

Murli, Sonic and Samantha send out lots of head rubs and nose kisses to all their sweet furfriends! We all hope you’re enjoying a wonderful holiday!

Much love, Natascha and the kitties!

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Happy Easter lovely friends!

We hope you all will have a wonderful Easter! Lots of love and kitty paw hugs!

Ps: Ralph and I received the marriage certificate of Ralph’s previous marriage from the UK and we sent it off to another office in the UK, to get the Apostille added to it. As soon as we get that back, we will hopefully finally get our wedding date from the registrar. Hopefully… Possibly… Probably…

Enjoy the Easter weekend dear friends! Love, Natascha